Don't Blame Me...You Did It
Imagine a situation where you're going about your day with little to no complications, then all the sudden there's a breakdown in your spouse's or child's life. Worse, YOU'RE blamed as the source of the breakdown (or at least you feel like you're being blamed).
What's your natural reaction?
Whether it's to fight back, deflect and deny, or checkout; at some point you will likely blame your mate in return.
And, you'll do it without planning to do so. It's an automatic survival mechanism that kicks in whenever you feel threatened.
If you've been married longer than 24 hours, you know that blaming and justifying yourself in the face of being blamed never resolves anything. It only makes a bad situation worse.
Tomorrow during our Marriage Transformation Night we're going to spend some time distinguishing what's happening in the background when we blame our mate and justify ourselves. Also, we'll try on some responses that will bring resolution to the situation while leaving BOTH spouses feeling empowered and ready to move on.
Show up Tuesday night ready to work on yourself (not your mate), and you will have a breakthrough in your marriage.
I know it's a bold promise, and I stand by it 100%.
If you want your marriage to be transformed -- not just get a little bit better -- join us.
My Promise:
If you show up Tuesday with an open heart, and you're ready to work on yourself (not your mate), you will have a breakthrough in your marriage. Period.
I know it's a bold promise, and I stand by it 100%.
If you want your marriage to be transformed -- not just get a little bit better -- join us.
Tuesday, 11/23 @ 8 PM EST / 7 PM CST / 5 PM PST
Click here to register for Marriage Transformation Night with Marriage Works!
Kevin